As wedding photographers, we spend a lot of time at weddings- I know I’m stating
the obvious, but I really mean when I say, we get a real variety of weddings, but they
all follow the same timeline as they are, well, a wedding. When we first started this
business one of the things we noticed is time allocations in a schedule. Brides and
Grooms come up with these strict schedules for how the day should go, and this is
completely understandable as there’s so much to get through on a wedding day! But
we did notice one thing… no bride and grooms were allocating time for themselves.
And when I say themselves, I mean they didn’t allocate time to just be together.
Sure, you have time for couples’ photos, but they’re often spent posing and
concentrating. We decided this would not do. Afterall, your wedding day is all about
you two, your love and a celebration of your love so far and the thoughts of a
beautiful future together; but realistically none of the couples we photographed spent
any time together on their wedding day and instead spent all day amusing guests,
sticking to schedules and doing ‘routines’ and what was expected of them. By the
time the day is over they often go to bed exhausted (and sometimes drunk) and
didn’t get to celebrate together the most important part of getting married. Each
other.
Richard and Lei enjoying the view from their wedding venue together in the designated 'couples photos' time
We aren’t saying you need to take extra time in your very tight schedule to allocate
time for this, as we know this can be difficult. But what we are saying is, we got you.
During your ‘couples’ photos’ we don’t spend ages posing you or bossing you
around. Instead, we ask (most often) that you just take the time to explore your
wedding venue together and just chat, hug, laugh and enjoy some peace and quiet
just the two of you for a little while. Occasionally we will give small pointers, like ‘can
you stand and look at each other whilst chatting’ or redirect you to another area of
the venue but this is just so you get variety in your couple’s photos. Other than this,
as candid photo documentary photographers we just stand back and take photos as
you naturally interact, and let you catch up and spend valuable time together on your
big day.
It is important to us to ensure that as the VIP’s of the wedding, you get to relax and
spend time just the two of you. If you ever want to get away but don’t want guests to
follow, don’t hesitate to ask us to go for ‘couples photos’ so we can remove you from
wherever you are and get you some peace and quiet. People tend not to question
photographers after all!
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